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January 22, 2021
La pazienza va coltivata senza scorciatoie
The blog
I write mainly about Montessori, parenthood, and multilingualism. Here are some recent posts.
Take care of the mother behind the woman
The most special road trip in east Canada with young kids
Montessori express: ask instead of correcting
Montessori express: describe instead of criticising
The kids carseat we traveled the world with
An example of how I practice empathy with my kids
How I show empathy to my children
Happy 4th birthday, Emily
Montessori New Year's tradition
Montessori Peace table
Audiobooks of real-life stories for kids
10k on Instagram!
Mums, dads & kids
We don't know how to be parents, we learn it everyday as we go. This is my way of motherhood, the small victories and the bitter defeats, my inconvenient truths and the endless life lessons. And also all the baby products and toys we love the most.
Audiobooks of real-life stories for kids
Let's not project our insecurities onto our kids
Question authorities
Parents need to be constructively selfish
One more step towards self-acceptance
When you think your marriage is over after kids.
Alex
We forgot our 10-year wedding anniversary!
Yoga is not only the perfection you see online
Let's educate our children towards diversity
Multilingualism
Languages are a great passion of mine. We are raising Oliver and Emily with four languages: Italian, English, Finnish and Spanish. This is our (their) journey in multilingualism.
What if my child doesn't accept a Spanish babysitter?
Raising multilingual kids: Oliver’s linguistic evolution at 3.5 years old
Multilingualism in Montessori: another tool to educate towards peace
Raising multilingual kids: how to teach Spanish (or any target language) if parents only speak English (or their native language)
Raising multilingual kids: why you shouldn’t worry if they don't speak all the languages
Infographic: Multilingualism, the importance of the first years and the role of the parents
Conversations with a multilingual 2 year old
Raising multilingual kids: the importance of the first three years of life
Oliver's favourite books (2 years old)
Teach English to your kids/toddlers at home with Super Simple Songs
Montessori
One day a few years ago my husband came home and said, "Why don't we put a mattress on the floor in the baby room? It'd be much more natural". "Never" was my reply. That's how our Montessori journey started. Since then we've been living, breathing and applying the philosophy at home day in and day out, starting from ourselves. Because educating children starts from the parents.
Take care of the mother behind the woman
Montessori express: ask instead of correcting
Montessori express: describe instead of criticising
An example of how I practice empathy with my kids
How I show empathy to my children
Happy 4th birthday, Emily
Montessori New Year's tradition
Montessori Peace table
Audiobooks of real-life stories for kids
10k on Instagram!
The most special road trip in east Canada with young kids
The kids carseat we traveled the world with
10k on Instagram!
Oliver
Alex
Road trip New Zealand South Island with kids
What it means to be full-time travellers during COVID-19
Orang-utans at Bukit Merah Island
Bangkok with kids
Can Gio Forest with kids by speed boat (Vietnam)
Living sustainably
Living sustainably for me doesn’t only mean to have a more eco-friendly lifestyle. It means to make decisions that are sustainable for our planet, the people on it, but also for our life, our lifestyle, and our happiness. It means to take any daily chance to evolve and be happier, healthier, kinder, more responsible and more caring human beings—the only sustainable way for a meaningful future.
Face yoga is an act of self love
Why you should wear the same outfit twice on Instagram
The power of creating habits (and why you should do it, even if you then break them!)
Responsible eating is the diet of the future (Would you like to teach it to your kids?)
The power of NOT complaining: can you do it for a whole month?
Clean up your planet, please!
Infographic: 8 steps to switch to cloth nappies (a guide for reluctant parents)
A personal note on happiness
A personal note on social media
A change of life always widens your horizons
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I’ve prepared collections on various topics that I’ve written over the years. Perhaps you’ll find one that interests you.
Travel
We sold everything to travel the world for two years. We're currently in New Zealand.
Books
In 2020 I wrote 4 books for the Italian collection “Gioca and Impara con il metodo Montessori” curated by Grazia Honegger Fresco. The collection is a project by Il Corriere della Sera and La Gazzetta dello Sport.
We also implemented the workshops of the last 15 volumes of the collection with Oliver and Emily.
Podcast
On my podcast, “Educare con calma”, I talk about various topics, from Montessori to sustainability. Only in Italian!
Jan 22, 2021 • 24m
La pazienza va coltivata senza scorciatoie
In questo episodio di Educare con Calma parliamo della pazienza dei bambini e di come coltivarla (la pazienza non è innata, nemmeno per Oliver ed Emily che vi sembrano tanto pazienti!). E visto che non ho trucchi o metodi specifici (o magari giusto un paio 😉), vi racconto tanti aneddoti e situazioni in cui noi abbiamo dato l’opportunità ai nostri figli di coltivare la pazienza. Spero che possano ispirarvi e motivarvi a ricercare opportunità anche con i vostri figli.
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Jan 20, 2021 • 06m
Montessori in 5': domanda invece di correggere
In questo episodio di Montessori in 5' ti invito a smettere di correggere i tuoi figli in continuazione e ti suggerisco una semplice domanda che ti aiuterà a farlo. È un minuscolo cambiamento che può aiutarti a ridurre l'attrito e le lotte di potere con i tuoi figli. A casa nostra funziona come per magia, sono sicura che aiuterà anche te!
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Come appoggiare il podcast:
Io non faccio pubblicità e non accetto sponsor, perché le pubblicità mi danno fastidio e non voglio sottoporvi a più pubblici...
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Jan 15, 2021 • 20m
Come "montessorizzare" la casa per dare indipendenza ai bambini
In questo episodio di Educare con Calma parliamo di come offrire indipendenza in casa attraverso l'ambiente.
Vi parlo dell'importanza dell'ambiente (anche nelle scuole Montessori), di quanto sia importante apportare piccoli cambiamenti in casa per dare più indipendenza ai bambini, e anche di come purtroppo questo non sia sufficiente… Questo tema è uno dei primi che avevo in mente di trattare sul podcast… meglio tardi che mai! 🌸
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Come appoggiare il podcast:
Io non faccio pubblicità e non acc...
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I update Instagram almost every day to be "close" to my family far away.
Why La Tela di Carlotta?
I dreamed of the name La Tela di Carlotta. One morning I woke up and in my dreams I had created a blog named just like the American novel (Charlotte's Web). Many years and endless ups and downs later, this web of thoughts and stories is my work. It took me a long time to understand what kind of online presence I wanted and today I know: I'm transparent, I show real life, I don't advertise, I only recommend sustainable brands (and not only because they pay me) and I believe in the value of my blog and my courses—because if we don't believe in the value of our work, no one will believe in it for us.
