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7 key phrases Montessori teachers use and why we should use them, too

Oct 23, 2017

I think that this article written by Christina Clemer is the one that best describes the Montessori philosophy in a way that everybody—teachers and parents—can understand.

I loved it so much that I decided to translate it for all my Italian and Spanish readers, but if you’d like to read it in English here it is: 7 key phrases Montessori teachers use and why we should use them, too.

Hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

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Did you like it? Do you agree or disagree? I'd love to hear from you.

Comments

Khayrie • Jul 12, 2019

Hi there Carlotta! Thanks a lot for translating it in English! I will definitely share this to my friends who are moms already.

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