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A day like any other

Jan 5, 2016

I started this 2016 a bit lazy and very tired. Oliver is not sleeping much at night. I’m on holiday so I’m with Oliver 24/7 and don’t have any classes, which might sound weird, but it’s more challenging for the mind as I have no “distraction”. Just being a mum might be even more difficult than being a working mum.

Laziness and tiredness have been the general mood lately (lack of sleep really affects me!), so I decided not to fight it. After all, days are just what we make of them.

On New Year’s Eve, I tiredly put on a red dress and some sort of make-up (in Spanish we say, “Antes muerta que sencilla”… Rather be dead than plain), threw a lazy “no-cook finger food” New Year’s party with our good friends, had a glass of wine which contributed to my zombie-ness, ate the 12 grapes at midnight and celebrated silently not to wake the babies (which the fireworks did). By 00:30 our friends had left, by 1am Oliver was back in bed and Alex and I collapsed on the couch, to then drag ourselves to bed around 2am and wake up every two hours until morning—because Oliver. (Yes, the sentence ends there)

We then put on our sunglasses to hide the bags under our eyes, and took Colbie to swim in the sea, as we’ve done every first of the year for the past many years.

And when I was finally back in bed for a nap around 5pm I was thinking that—apart from the tiredness—it was exactly how I wanted to end my year: have some food without having to cook, be with people I can be my(zombie)self with, take a walk in the sun, spend a nice morning with my family and sleep at any given chance.

Once again, it reminded me that after all, all these yearly fixed dates—Christmas, New Year, Easter, bank holidays—are just that to me: dates. Just days like any other. And any day is simply what we make of it. Today, for example, we’re celebrating that Zia Cri has arrived. Happy Tuesday, everybody!

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First selfie of the year! [/caption]

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I write mainly about Montessori, parenthood, and multilingualism. Here are some recent posts.

Montessori
One day a few years ago my husband came home and said, "Why don't we put a mattress on the floor in the baby room? It'd be much more natural". "Never" was my reply. That's how our Montessori journey started. Since then we've been living, breathing and applying the philosophy at home day in and day out, starting from ourselves. Because educating children starts from the parents.
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Two alternatives to screens that my kids love
Using fear and threats to control children is never right!
"Stop crying!" doesn't work
Living sustainably
Living sustainably for me doesn’t only mean to have a more eco-friendly lifestyle. It means to make decisions that are sustainable for our planet, the people on it, but also for our life, our lifestyle, and our happiness. It means to take any daily chance to evolve and be happier, healthier, kinder, more responsible and more caring human beings—the only sustainable way for a meaningful future.
Face yoga is an act of self love
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We sold everything to travel the world for two years. We're currently in New Zealand.

Books

In 2020 I wrote 4 books for the Italian collection “Gioca and Impara con il metodo Montessori” curated by Grazia Honegger Fresco. The collection is a project by Il Corriere della Sera and La Gazzetta dello Sport.

We also implemented the workshops of the last 15 volumes of the collection with Oliver and Emily.

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On my podcast, “Educare con calma”, I talk about various topics, from Montessori to sustainability. Only in Italian!

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Why La Tela di Carlotta?
I dreamed of the name La Tela di Carlotta. One morning I woke up and in my dreams I had created a blog named just like the American novel (Charlotte's Web). Many years and endless ups and downs later, this web of thoughts and stories is my work. It took me a long time to understand what kind of online presence I wanted and today I know: I'm transparent, I show real life, I don't advertise, I only recommend sustainable brands (and not only because they pay me) and I believe in the value of my blog and my courses—because if we don't believe in the value of our work, no one will believe in it for us.
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